When we continue to point out the (obvious) and singularly focused detriments to babies born to drug-addicted parents, we fuel an already existing dichotomy that pits pregnant people against their fetuses.
As though, when pregnant, it’s some kind of “us vs. them” situation where each battles for their own individual rights and survival.
As though the two are not intimately connected, not pumping the same blood fed by the same heart.
It presumes that, given the opportunity, parents will maliciously harm themselves and premeditatively damage their children.
It confuses addiction as an illness with addiction as a crime.
And if all of the forced interventions and tests hinge on the “for the good of the baby” argument, where does it end? Shall we monitor people’s diets or mandate supplementation of folic acid for all those of childbearing age in order to reduce the likelihood of neural tube defects?
Those babies may also suffer.
Shall we launch an offensive on their parents? Shall we turn pregnancy into a Police State so as to protect all babies from the selfish hosts that carry them? Or should we make the wild leap and assume that all people care about their pregnancies and their babies?
Should we hold people with compassion and support, or with contempt?
It is possible to care about newborns who suffer with dependency symptoms and simultaneously demand that their parents receive non-stigmatized, non-criminalized support.
It’s possible to recognize that there are circumstances in which people are mentally unfit to parent, while holding the belief that screening all pregnant patients as routine in order to find them is not the answer; that criminalizing people who seek support is not the answer.
It’s time to stop talking about this issue as though there is a singular entity affected by addiction; as though addiction looks the same from person to person, experience to experience; as though people with addiction are repulsive and discardable, or that all people with addiction are engulfed in a downward spiral, being eaten alive by the substance that controls them.
It’s time to hold space for the myriad experiences people face – from severe and ever spiraling heroin addiction, to false positive drug test results, legal THC prescriptions, and doctor-supervised Buprenorphine treatment.
Let’s end the rhetoric that holds women in blanket contempt of their very own bodies and the babies that they carry, and radically assume that we hold value – to ourselves, to our babies, and to the world.
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